From time to time, I deliver presentations in the community related to marriage. I have noticed that a common question comes up repeatedly from the married males in my audiences. I am asked this question often enough that I am choosing to address it in a blog post.
Before I address the specific question, I want to be clear that I believe these inquiries are coming from individuals in relatively low to moderately-distressed marriages. Many people in my audiences are feeling well in their marriages and are looking for improving upon what is already a solid foundation. I’m making that clear because I realize that this point of view isn’t representative of many other marriages which are experiencing more disconnection and outright criticism from their partners.
The question I am asked routinely by men is, “How can I make my wife believe that I really think she is beautiful and…
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